When Your Dates are Progressing to Become Serious
So, you have been dating for a while and your dates are still going on. You both
feel comfortable and enjoy each other’s company and so you both keep arranging dates.
That shows that there is a need and a desire to want to be together. It could therefore
mean that your dating is getting serious. But how can you be sure if you are right? Some
factors to consider that will indicate if your dating is becoming serious are: trust,
confidentiality and exclusivity with each other.
Trust is perhaps the biggest element in a relationship so some amount of trust has
to be established from the time you begin dating. Trust means that you know the
individual will not do anything to harm or hurt your well-being or dating experience.
While you can’t totally trust your new date although you may have gone out a few
times, there are still steps that can be taken to begin to build trust. By telling your date
confidential information, it means that you have some trust in the person. So, if it’s a case
where confidentialities have been shared and there’s no concern about your personal and
private information being shared or misused, then you and your date have build up solid
trust in each other.
The experience between you and your date is also getting serious when there has
been full disclosure and confidentiality about personal issues including health, family,
problems being experienced or any worrisome issue or matter. It means you can trust the
individual with your affairs and that you want your date to know about issues that affect
you so that you both can share your thoughts about them.
Another big indicator that your dating is getting serious is when you both decide
not to date anyone else. Exclusivity to and with each other is a big factor because in fact,
you both are now acting like a couple
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